So the tea is circulating that Carmelo Anthony may have gotten another woman pregnant. I could care less her profession. My thing is why are you dragging La La for not staying with him? Did I miss where in the vows it states to honor? Where is it honorable to sleep on your wife with anyone regardless if you get them pregnant? Now I know a lot of basketball players and people in the industry get blamed for cheating but it sort of comes with the territory. Look at all of the examples where these women who marry into this deal with the ups and downs of the many women who just want a piece of the action and slide into the hotel rooms of these men? Everybody ain’t telling the same lie!
If and I say if because as much as these stories hit the airways, at the end of the day marriage is between 2 people, that this is true than she shouldn’t have stayed and high-fived his raggedy behavior. I do however believe where there is smoke there is fire. So something other than the stress of his NBA career is happening. The reason I say that is simply due to the fact that when kids are involved people are more than cautious to not play games with separation with kids in the middle. Even if it’s just this one public story do you know the other things that have taken place between them? No you don’t but like any married couple who is real and honest, I bet you it was more than just one thing. It’s never one thing. If you want to make a marriage work, it boils down to give and take, and going through the mess and wiping it off, working it out and trying. However when enough is enough you walk away. Marriage is forever when both parties are in it for the forever.
You not going to convince me that it don’t still take 2 to Tango. So we gonna need the ones dragging La La to just stop. Stop the foolishness of this misconceived notion that wives are supposed to be dumping bags for junk. She didn’t leave Carmelo high and dry. She did what was best for her and her child after the many sacrifices to her had been taken. Carmelo will be fine. It’s unfortunate that after so long with the Knicks but career stress isn’t a valid excuse to be out here slipping. The most disrespectful thing you can do to a wife is to cheat and have a child with another woman. Some women deal fine with it and others only deal because they have to but that don’t mean they stay. No different if the shoe was on the other foot. La La would be called every hoe and bitch there ever was. You won’t be able to drag her for leaving a cheating man over here at ToiTime. I am a wife and I don’t play those games. I will never go on record talking about what my husband won’t or will do but I will snatch your edges if you try to drag me for walking away from some crap like cheating like that’s supposed to be happening in a marriage.
The best thing that can be done is one, make sure you ain’t still with Ray Ray that has been knowingly sleeping with your friend for years. It amazes me the amount of hate within women who have been in the same situation or worst that tell others what they should do, talk about them, and then go home to do the same thing. We are women we can be better than this. I know it a bunch of men blogging and dragging La La and making comments. Not that men don’t talk because they do, but this is some insecure women crap. My thing and my stance is you don’t know what is going on behind doors and until you have been in the trenches, leave folks alone about what they do with their lives. Secondly there is a child in the middle of this very adult situation that will get older and have to read about both of his parents. How they handle it needs to be handled with delicacy.