The question is how does our reader communicate to her boyfriend that he needs to stop promising the world to her during sex…
Well this is a good problem to have. In one sense know that during sex a man would just about empty out there account to you if it meant getting more. However it can be off-putting to hear it every time you have sex. I would just mention it obviously when you’re not in the moment. You have to bring it up so that it doesn’t mess up your head and then no one is having a good time.
Also know too if you leave it alone and don’t mention it at all it really could just be how things happen. Meaning men say dumb things at the point of climax. Most men barely follow through. Men make a lot of promises during sex. If he is saying weird things he wants to give you that you really wanted or needed and then falling by the way side with the come up, there’s a problem. If he is making promises on dumb and unattainable things then understand the other “head” is doing the talking. So if he promises you marriage or brings it up during sex but outside of the bedroom hes mute and you want to be married, let him know it’s not ok and that it has to stop. If he does tell him how disheartening it is to have these conversations with him when he is doing it for the wrong reasons. Climax produces a lot of amazing feelings but playing with your emotions isn’t one.
If it makes you uncomfortable or makes you want to stop having sex with him its worth a conversation. However this is why women hold an amazing power. We have the ability to really take a man down with that power. Speak up and find other ways to have some sexy talk during your sex sessions.
Side note for men: don’t tell a woman you gonna give her anything you can’t really give her once you wash up and leave. Talk that talk that can be backed up and not when we backing it up…..