How to Handle Love Week When you and your Love are Beefing

Valentine’s Day is this week and it would be nice if all couples were in an a sea of love and like. That is ideal but it’s not always real. These man-made holidays don’t always have timing on point. Remember just like no two people are the same; no two couples are the same as…

What does a Blogger like me want for Christmas?

I was asked this question and at first I was like would anyone want to know that.  First let me say that this is not a blog to get a thang! I am good.  Nor is this blog to help or aid my husband in any of his gift giving endeavors.  He already gives the…

Ask Toi: We got some questions

Is it okay to air out a grievance about a company or individual who didn’t offer a good service or a faulty product?  If they have a social media page for their work than yes.  Business is business.  In this social media age, how you deal with folks will air itself on social media.  So…

Mother’s Day Do NOTS

So yes it’s Mother’s Day and the day can be super beautiful however there are a few things you don’t want to do: If a woman isn’t pregnant or at least hasn’t confirmed it with you, do NOT ask her when she is ready to have some.  Not every woman wants a kid.  This day…

Mother’s Day Gift Giving Guide

Mother’s Day is around the corner literally and the struggle to get mom the perfect gift is on.  I have a few suggestions to help you along the way, but first let’s think what would mom want.  The gift that you give should be about making mom smile.  No amount of gifts will ever pay…

Let Love Be Great!

So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love.  Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details. Just because you don’t celebrate doesn’t mean you have to do the whole “it’s not…

Gift giving guide to the men for the lady you’re dating…

Okay here we go again, we have Demetrius of Tao of Indifference here representing for the men.  Men you know you hate getting gifts for the ladies as you over think it a bit.  So here’s a guide to help you as you navigate through the process. While the holidays can be a time for…

Holiday trend: gift cards!

Good afternoon Holidays are such a beautiful time.  Gift giving is at an all time high as well.   Giving gift cards is no new thing.  Those little plastic cards can be a God send when you don’t know what to get an individual or to allow others to shop it up for themselves in exchange…