How to Handle Love Week When you and your Love are Beefing

Valentine’s Day is this week and it would be nice if all couples were in an a sea of love and like. That is ideal but it’s not always real. These man-made holidays don’t always have timing on point. Remember just like no two people are the same; no two couples are the same as…

Ask Toi: We got some questions

Is it okay to air out a grievance about a company or individual who didn’t offer a good service or a faulty product?  If they have a social media page for their work than yes.  Business is business.  In this social media age, how you deal with folks will air itself on social media.  So…

Let Love Be Great!

So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love.  Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details. Just because you don’t celebrate doesn’t mean you have to do the whole “it’s not…

Broke and Blessed

So the holidays have always reminded me of just how hard working my parents were and are. It reminds me of how blessed I really am.  It’s no secret that at one point my family and I lived in a shelter. I look at my children and they will never understand what that looks like…

Love week: It’s not just about you!

Well ladies and gentlemen, welcome to love week ToiTime style.  We will cover all aspects of love and romance and make sure we don’t leave the singles out either.  This is the time of the year where people place so much stock into their self worth over roses and candy.  Not at ToiTime.  We know…

Gift giving guide to the men for the lady you’re dating…

Okay here we go again, we have Demetrius of Tao of Indifference here representing for the men.  Men you know you hate getting gifts for the ladies as you over think it a bit.  So here’s a guide to help you as you navigate through the process. While the holidays can be a time for…

Holiday trend: gift cards!

Good afternoon Holidays are such a beautiful time.  Gift giving is at an all time high as well.   Giving gift cards is no new thing.  Those little plastic cards can be a God send when you don’t know what to get an individual or to allow others to shop it up for themselves in exchange…