Self Love

Self love will look different, sound different, taste different, etc to different people. Self love means by the very definition is about loving yourself.  The broadest definition of self-love is learning how to care for you, what you need, how much you need, and being okay to not limit how often you love on yourself. How you…

“My married friends are worst than my single ones…”

I want to knock on wood, pray to baby Jesus the Black and the White one, go in a trance that I never have to know the betrayal of a husband in the form of another woman having my husband’s baby.  We have planned not to have any more children.  By we I mean I…

Relationship Overhaul: Asking for too much too soon

Well here we go with more relationship questions from my Ask Toi.  Again if you want to ask an anonymous question please do so on toitimeblog@gmail.com Today’s question comes from a young lady who wants to know how to deal with a man who wants her to put her cards on the table but refuses to…

Disclaimers

Now yesterday I wrote about hoe miles.  No that’s not a typo.  Catch the blog if you missed it.  For the ones who obviously read the blog and still was in an uproar I say roar on.  It amazes me the words that we choose to get upset over and break down about.  Clearly if…

Your Hoe Miles don’t have an expiration!!

Do you understand that although you can change your life people will NEVER forget what you said and did?  Let me say this upfront, please do NOT read not a sentence more because today I will not be politically correct.  In my house we were raised with a sense of realness that most houses would…