A New Year is approaching and there will be a thousand goals that will be put out.  I even have a few hints from my own failures and accomplishments to assist.  However this is it in a nut shell, you will not complete and goal that you aren’t being consistent in.

This means you have to be doing daily, weekly and monthly checks.  You will feel defeated.  Let me repeat that for those in the back, you will FEEL defeated a lot of times during the execution of those goals.  DO NOT STOP!  Don’t go to the gym day one, miss day two and then stay away for the rest of the week.  Forgiveness along the way will help you become successful.  This means that you will have to do a LOT of forgiving yourself in order to make any goal pop.

You can read this page, as often as you need, read any of my own failures but you need to dust yourself off and try a thousand times.  A man who falls a thousand times but doesn’t quit is the one I believe should be honored! Quitting is not an option.  Backsliding is a choice-always remember that.  You can either stay in that mindset or do better and soar.  It’s still your choice.

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Keep yourself first as you serve those around you.  There are days when I don’t blog because my cup needs to be reset.  I need to get my life together.  I am always honest about that.  Social media and platforms will have you thinking that only YOUR life is bad when in reality is we are all pushing through, falling, or having to be knocked down at times.  Be gentle with yourself. Stop comparing yourself to me or anyone else.  I always check my cup and I always am honest about the times when I blew it. I will be blogging more about those moments as well.  We need to know that we aren’t alone. The human spirit is constantly being fed this fake picture of perfection and reality is perfection is great to attempt to obtain but I believe in getting better not perfect.

2018 will be all you create. Sometimes it takes taking big girl or big boy steps in order to get what is yours! Do not be afraid that you don’t have enough resources, talent, or stamina to keep it all up.  You do-your gift will make room for itself!