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There’s only one month until we have to say goodbye to 2018. I have made some dramatic personal changes in my life. One being the block/unblock button. I am not opening new doors right now but I have changed how I view the things that has happened in my life. I am not waiting until 2019 to make this long dramatic changes. A lot of my changes will be continued daily work with new intentions that I actively enacted in 2018.

I encourage all of my readers to start thinking ahead.  I would encourage all of you to put the necessary energy into the very things that you want to be connected to and apart of. I have already looking at events that I want to be involved in, what it will cost, how to get there, and who to link up to make those things happen. Being intentional on the daily is so important to me and to my daily self-care routine. If something is going to trigger me in any way, I try my best to not be apart of the conversation or event.

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Self Care Tips

Keep yourself first as you serve those around you.  There are days when I don’t blog because my cup needs to be reset.  I need to get my life together.  I am always honest about that.  Social media and platforms will have you thinking that only YOUR life is bad when in reality, we are all pushing through, falling, or having to be knocked down at times.  Be gentle with yourself. Stop comparing yourself to me or anyone else.  I always check my cup and I always am honest about the times when I blew it. I will be blogging more about those moments as well.  We need to know that we aren’t alone. The human spirit is constantly being fed this fake picture of perfection and reality is perfection is great to attempt to obtain but I believe in getting better not perfect.

2018 will be all you create. Sometimes it takes taking big girl or big boy steps in order to get what is yours! Do not be afraid that you don’t have enough resources, talent, or stamina to keep it all up.  You do-your gift will make room for itself!  So as you walk in life even your failures will be lessons to add to your destiny.  Finish strong!  Finish whole! Finish Balanced! 2019 will be a beautiful reset by applying the skills, lessons, heartache, disappointments that took place in 2018 to make you that much greater!